In Desiring God’s, You Are Not Damaged Goods On Dating with a Sexual History, the author claims, “To seek the person with the “cleanest” [sexual hi]story is an attempt to control a future — it’s not a search for holiness, but a divine coup d’état, striving to micromanage our own safety and power.”
So basically, you’re in sin if you want a virgin. There’s nothing innately pure about virginity. The girl who has ridden the carousel doesn’t necessarily have any more baggage than a virgin.
Don’t come a crying when virginity is thrown to the wind.